What can be said about endings that hasn’t been said before (and by endings I don’t mean the last sentence of a story, or the final frame of a film, or a person’s back-side, although perhaps I am, we’ll see)? All good things must come to an end? One door closes, while another opens? What starts must finish? Clichés, the lot of it, except, of course, in every cliché there’s a grain of truth, which in itself is a cliché, but let’s stop there or else we’re going to get stuck in a dreadful brain-porn cycle.
All I really want to say is that a month ago I came to the Gatekeeper’s Cottage at Cataract Gorge, Launceston, Tasmania, to write, as well as give some workshops, which I’ve enjoyed immensely, so thanks so much if you attended one of the sessions and are reading this.
And write I have, though that’s secret scribe’s business.
Now I’m done. It’s over.
I’m not sure when I’ll come back to Tasmania – there’s one heck of a large world out there, with lots of residency programs to which I might apply. Eek, the thought of going on another residency in the near future…well, it’s too soon to be talking about going away again to write. That’s the future, and this post is about endings, going home, being with He Who Stayed At Home, and the Old Lady of The House, and Cat the Ripper.
To get myself and you, dear reader, on our collective way, I’ve channelled some wisdom from people who seem to know about the whole home caper, and I thought I’d share it with you – see below.
We’ll talk again when I’m snug in my own home, in my own bed, in my own study, with my own books and CDs and LPs, in my own good old flawed life.
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Home is where you hang your head. Groucho Marx
Every day is a journey, and the journey itself is home. Matsuo Basho
When I am abroad, I always make it a rule never to criticise or attack the government of my own country. I make up for lost time when I come home. Winston Churchill
I never worry about being driven to drink; I just worry about being driven home. W.C. Fields
Fiction was invented the day Jonas arrived home and told his wife that he was three days late because he had been swallowed by a whale. Gabriel Garcia Marquez
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May 15, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
The Museum Spook.
Must you leave so soon? I was hoping to make it up there. I did enjoy your workshop and have recently been sent a ghastly report form to fill out regarding your performance. Like, from one to ten? How dare they! My thoughts are my own and always pure. Pure fun, at least. So don’t go. Just come again.
May 16, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Nigel Featherstone
Thanks Julian AKA ‘The Museum Spook’! I’m so glad you enjoyed the Hobart workshop. As to feedback, just fill in all the boxes marked 10 and that should be fine 🙂 I’m sure I’ll be back to Hobart at some point. All the best to you.
May 15, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Ms. Moon
Home is where the heart is. And made all the sweeter by being away from it. Enjoy YOUR home.
And I love the Gabriel Garcia Marquez quote. I had never heard that one.
May 16, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Nigel Featherstone
Thanks Ms Moon. I’m now home. Ahhh, it feels so damn good.
May 15, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
screamish
You lucky thing…what a great way to earn a living…ever heard of the ???oh, what’s it called, it’s not far from here. Maybe I can lure you here for G and T and Provencal sun?
May 16, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Nigel Featherstone
Hi Screamish, a G n T in the sun – how could I refuse!
May 16, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Nana Jo
I adore the Gabriel Garcia Marquez quote! I’m going to print that one out.
This is a gorgeous post, Nigel. In less than a week, after thirty years here, we are moving to another city 600 kilometres away. Gem, my hubby, has accepted a position at a university there. It is his dream job and all-in-all a time of happiness, but … how I will miss the home which has become such a part of me. Your post reminds me though, that I will be taking my flawed self and life with me. We will begin again.
May 16, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Nigel Featherstone
Hi Nana Jo, thanks, as always, for your thoughtful comments. Enjoy your move, enjoy your new place, enjoy the memories of your old place.
As for me, I’m happily back home.
But all this does remind me of a children’s story that a friend once wrote, about a turtle who travelled the world looking for his home only to find that he’d been carrying it with him the whole time…
May 16, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
mjrc
i just read the most intriguing essay in harper’s magazine about traveling, especially the part about arriving home in the airport. it’s by alain de botton, from his book A Week at the Airport. so although your post is about endings and leaving, it might be worth reading as sort of a bookend to your own lovely essay.
May 16, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Nigel Featherstone
Hi MJRC, thanks heaps for that tip – I like Alain de Botton (his ‘The Architecture of Happiness’ was fantastic), so will definitely get ‘A Week at the Airport’, because – you’re right – it’s very topical to me at the moment.
Comings and goings, beginnings and endings…
May 17, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Sarcastic Bastard
I love the Basho quote. Safe travels back home.
May 17, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Nigel Featherstone
Thanks SB. Basho is a god.
May 18, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Mwa
I LOVE that Marquez quote.
And I don’t know why I always want to say the same thing as Ms. Moon. I think she may be my sister or my aunt or something.
May 18, 2010 at 9:16+00:00May
Nigel Featherstone
Hi Mwa, yep that Marquez is a beauty. So is that Ms Moon.